Make a list of the people in your life who make you feel good when they’re around, and bring out the best in you. They could be friends, family, a teacher or coach, someone at work or school, a neighbor.
Make a call, send a text, get together for lunch, or take a walk. Keeping those connections active is key!
If you’re in a relationship, ask yourself these questions:
- Do I feel supported?
- Do I feel safe?
- Can I be myself with them?
- Can I tell them how I really feel?
- Do I hold as much power as my partner in the relationship?
- Do we listen to each others’ concerns?
- Do I trust them?
- Do I feel good about myself when I’m with them?
Answering “no” to any of these may be a sign that this is not a supportive relationship. Think about making a change.
Sometimes the best way to feel connected and reduce your stress is to help other people.
Check in on someone you know who’s been going through a tough time.
Volunteer for a nonprofit or in a community service project. Become a Big Brother or Big Sister to a child who needs a caring person in their life.
You’ll get the satisfaction of helping, and the benefit of social connection.